After 30 years living in Canada, our Tatay always go home to Aklan every year and stay in Ondoy as long as he can on his retirement years. He was about to leave Toronto at the end of December 2009 but unfortunately he was admitted in emergency room with shortness of breath and weakness at Toronto General Hospital. He passed away peacefully at age 77, more than a month after he was diagnosed with incurable lung cancer. He continued on with a good fight until the end. He leaves behind his wife, Prudencia Garcia (nee` Silva), 9 children, 10 grandchildren, a great grandson and his 4 sisters and 2 brothers. Good bye Tatay.
In this time of sorrow, there are moments from the past that replay in our minds.....
Your children remember, when we were very young, Nanay took us on a 24 hr boat ride to see you in Manila, before you were set to sail off overseas. But because your ship had to leave immediately, we were not able to see you, even though we had traveled so long and so far. It was devastatingly sad and we children went back home broken hearted.
Your children remember when we traveled that same journey a second time luckily were able to spend some time with you before you went off to sea again. Although it was short time only, and so long ago, it was unforgettable to us. You took care of us - played with us in the park, bought us biscuits and candies. We hope you keep that memory with you, as you leave us now.
Your children remember reading the letters and post cards you sent from the various port or country you traveled to. In a way, we felt like we were travelling with you through your words. We remember how you would ask Nanay to write to you because there would be times you would feel lonely at sea.
Your children remember the Christmas season you sent us much needed presents - a school bag, an umbrella, toys, christmas lights and decorations, new shoes. Though these gifts may not have cost much, we accepted them like treasures because they came from you.
Thinking back on memories like these, makes us feel thankful for those happier moments. The binds of our family are strong and we are together here, once again, with you and for you. In remembering the legacy you left behind we accept you for what you were. "We will grieve not, rather find strength in what remains." Paalam Tatay.
Roni Garcia Sambas
Garcia Family
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